Voyeurism – A Fantasy That May Be Problematic For You

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• 16 August 202116 August 2021

Every man fantasizes to enjoy sex in a way through which he can attain maximum pleasure. Having fantasies and fetishes is not a sign of any weirdness but it is completely normal and healthy. Fascinating about sex and try to innovate things to make it more interesting is really a fun.

Sex is the name of ultimate pleasure and if you are not able to achieve that pleasure, a sex session is not worth at all. That’s why most sex-positive folks unleash their hunger by trying their fetishes. Bondage, role-play, impact play, anal sex, oral sex are some common acts that people are craved for. Apart from these, you might have heard of many other erotic acts, but have you ever encountered with word voyeurism?

What is Voyeurism? 

Voyeurism is an act of getting excitement by watching another person engaged in intimacy or sexual acts. The concept and definition of this term have changed over the last century. At first, it was considered as a sexual disorder in which a voyeuristic desired person interfered individual’s privacy to achieve his sexual gratification. But the definition has changed now. Voyeurism is now consensual and potentially fulfilling sexual behavior. It can be the part of usual sex, healthy fetish, or occasionally fantasy.

The person who is watching the action is a Voyeur but generally, they are referred to as peeping Tom. The main thing about voyeurism is that the person who is being watched does not know that he/she is being observed. Generally, Voyeur does not interact with the person who is engaged in sexual activity at that moment, they are in a private place where they expect that there is no threat to their privacy.

Male or Female, Who Practice Voyeurism More? 

There are various sexual positions and acts. Some are liked by men while some are favorites of women. If we talk about Voyeurism, a small study done by Karolinska study on 2500 Swedish people in which 7.7% said that they enjoy watching other people have sex and you would be amazed that out of that 7.7%, 4% were women. So, we can’t say, only men are Voyeurs but females too enjoy watching other individual nude or involved in sexual activity.

Responsible Voyeurism

In Voyeurism, the party who is having sex does not know that someone is watching them. So, if you try to understand it closely, it is a completely irresponsible act as you are interfering with someone’s privacy without their consent. If you have voyeuristic desires, there are several responsible ways to fulfill them without violating anyone’s privacy and consent.

• Role-Playing: You are looking for responsible options, hire partners for role-playing. Set up the condition that interests you. Some sex-positive communities invite people, couples, or individuals to engage in sexual exploration. Apart from that you can go to the internet and choose cam sex services. There is a lot of couples who opens their room and welcome people to enjoy live visual of their erotic activities. By paying nominal credits, you can enjoy a sex show.
• Podcast: If you see the definition of fantasy, it is completely the mental image. So, if you are satisfied with your imagination, then download some erotic podcasts. Don’t go for any visual medium otherwise, you will lose the whole pleasure of voyeurism. Those erotic audios allow you to listen to someone who has engaged in sexual acts or follow along with the story told from the voyeurs’ point of view.

Voyeurism and Crime

As you are violating someone’s privacy without their consent, in some country’s voyeurism is considered to be a sex crime. In the UK, non-consensual Voyeurism is supposed to be a criminal offense. In 2013, the Indian parliament introduced Voyeurism as a criminal activity. Singapore and the USA too have amended their law to treat voyeurs as a criminal. If a man committing the offense of voyeurism in these countries would be liable for imprisonment or fine or both.

Conclusion

Dreaming or fantasizing about sex is completely normal and working on common fantasy may even spice the relationship. If you are making your sex session exciting by innovating various things, it makes you experience less anxiety and greater self-esteem. It is all up to you and your partner how you are cooperating but yes just make sure you take consent and establish boundaries during your activities and follow common law of nudity and sex.